I understand the frustration Curtis...it is tricky arranging stuff though. For context, my weekday evenings looks like this:
Monday - deliver and pick up child A to cubs (or sit at home with child B and C while my wife does it)
Tuesday - deliver and pick up children A and B to acrobatics (or sit at home...); sit at home while wife goes running
Wednesday - either go to life drawing class, Necromunda campaign or Blood Bowl league (depending what's on)
Thursday - play badminton, get back and sit at home whilecwife goes running
Friday - free
Often I don't get to do the Wed or Thurs stuff as I'm regularly away with work.
The game at WHW was a possibility due to planetary alignment or similar. I'm up for more stuff, but it really does have to be on the odd occasions when it allows, rather than a regular thing, although I'd drop a Wed evening stuff for an Oldhammer session
I know it doesnt make it that much more palatable, but I keep hoping that I'll get more time as the kids get older. Can you wait another 5 years?